Sunday, April 5, 2009

The Highs and Lows of a Week with a Teenage Girl

This first week of April has been busy and full of highs and lows. It was the first week since we've been here that it was sunny and fairly warm all week long. The daffodils and forsythia are now in full bloom and the magnolias are just beginning to open up.

Alyna had several tests and big assignments due as well as trying to prepare to take the ACT test. She studied hard but also found time to watch some sitcoms and enjoy the sunshine. She did well on all her tests and assignments so that was good. She had one day where she only had one class so she skipped it and stayed home and studied. That day, she also got a special delivery.

For several weeks now she has known that she was going to get asked to Mountain Crests' Junior Prom which just happens to be the weekend we came home for Lisa's wedding. We had been wondering how Brandon would ask since we are 8 hours time difference and many thousands of miles. On Wednesday afternoon the doorbell rang (which doesn't actually happen here very often unless we are expecting someone.) It was a floral delivery service. The pictures will tell the rest of the story-
It was our great luck that Dennis was heading home to Utah the next day so Alyna hurried and prepared an answer. Dennis took home this card and a picture of her with the flowers and a little wooden shoe keychain and Dennis, Andrew and Lindsay delivered it to him on Friday night. It was a really fun event for all of us.


(The YES! is written using the petals from the flower.)

The next big thing for Alyna was the ACT test which we signed up for in January before we knew that Dennis would be out of the country. It caused a bit of stress for all of us becasue the test was being administered in the American school in the Hague. I haven't driven in any of the big cities here and was very nervous. Alyna was nervous about doing well on the test and taking it in a very unfamiliar place. Dennis helped us out a bit by driving over there the Sunday before so we could see where the school was and mark it on the car GPS system. Anyway, so we got up at 5:30AM Saturday morning and drove the hour and a half to the school. We went in and as we were waiting for the test administrator to appear, Alyna remembered she had forgotten to print out the admission form. She went and talked to the administrator when she got there and the lady was a bit grumpy about it but finally said that she could make it work. I was the only parent there so Alyna finally said I could leave. About half an hour later she called in tears and said she had forgotten her wallet and they wouldn't let her take the test. She was so upset with herself for not double checking the web site and frustrated that after all her preparation time she wasn't going to be able to take the test. It was a good learning experience for all of us.

That evening Alyna came into the kitchen while I was finishing cleaning up and said something like, "You are sure ready to be a grandma!" I was a bit confused. We hadnt been talking about babies or siblings or anything. I asked why she said that and she said that I had just decorated the bathroom like a grandma would. I was quite taken aback. I had finally decided this week that the downstairs bathroom needed some kind of decorations in it besides the bottle of liquid soap so I had gotten a little rug, some flowers and a colored towel and put in it.
I guess that it may look a bit "grandma-ish" but it looks a bit homier. Any suggestions on how to not make it look a little younger and funner?

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